My grandfather also worked hard but held a different view
of work and success. He had a sixth-grade education and was a
clerk and handyman in a small town shoe store for many years. Six
evenings a week, he would come home at sunset at the end of his
work day, sit down in his easy chair, and, to my grandmother's
inquiries about how work had gone, he would shake his head and
reply, "Well, Dora, I worked pretty hard. That's all a mule can
do.”
I asked members of my family about the origin of-
this saying "That's all a mule can do." According to my family,
there is a biological explanation. Horses and mules work
differently. You have to watch a horse because it does not know
how or when to stop and will work itself-to death if
given the opportunity. It literally will never let it rest. A
mule, on the other hand, will work hard until it is tired and then
will work no more. It knows when it has had enough. It knows when
to let it rest.
I do not know if this bit of animal husbandry/folk wisdom
is
true or not. My Internet search
turned up nothing. And I have to admit that certain members of my
family, when asked a question whose answer they do not know,
prefer making up an answer to having no answer. But fact or
fiction, this saying recently has become as important a phrase for
me as my grandmother's "Never let it rest." When I have had
enough, I shake my head and echo the words and weariness of my
grandfather, "That's all a mule can do."
And thinking about how mules and horses work (or are
alleged to work) makes me wonder how humans work. What are the
natural patterns of- human work? What are the moral
obligations for work in human life? And under what conditions do
we shake our heads and say. "That's all a human can do." What
would it look like if- we worked not like horses or
even like mules, but like humans?
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