Forget about the love
Candidates, as Mr. Card aptly put it, have to be "love magnets." Their primary job right now is to get voters to swoon over them. Hence, the baby kissing, pancake flipping and crowd pleasing.
For the winner, the dating ritual ends when he becomes president. His job shifts radically, starting during the transition period between election and inauguration. Mr. Card offered the best description I've heard of the ultimate calling: "A president must find the courage to be lonely."
Mr. Obama especially should consider that point. He has been campaigning for a year before worshipful supporters.
If he wins, he will have to disappoint some of that throng if he's going to be a great leader. A president, after all, has to make calls in the national interest, not just in the interest of devoted supporters.
Go ahead, call Trent
Mr. McLarty told about arriving in Washington with a Democratic president-elect and telling someone he was going to call Trent Lott, a conservative GOP legislator from Mississippi.
"You can't do that," a Washington bigwig objected.
Taken aback, Mr. McLarty said he had known Mr. Lott for 20 years, had done business in Mississippi and had his telephone number. Fortunately, he resisted the advice and called his friend, Mr. Lott, who offered constructive ideas about how the Clinton administration could begin on good footing.
We'll see how quickly the next president-elect gets this point. Who does he call? As candidates, they are on the stump telling voters that the opposing party is no good. Will the victor pivot and work with those demons?
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